Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Passing the Box

250446519406_0_ALB We had a quick turn around on the Emergency Box this week (for an explanation of the Box, go HERE).  With Glenda's daughter Anna getting married last Saturday and Wanda's son Braxton getting married this Saturday, it was time for Glenda to inscribe Wanda's name in the Box lid and pass it on.

We gathered at Pablo's Mexican Restaurant on Monday night for the ceremony, preceded by dinner and drinks.  As the mother of the groom and the honoree for the evening, Wanda was privileged to wear the lavender crown that Susie brought. 

760446519406_0_ALBAfter opening gifts of lotions, creams, scented candles and a gift certificate for a pedicure, Wanda got to examine the contents of the Emergency Box.  As you can see, she was pleased to find that the two bottles of vodka were still there, although some of us are suspicious that the vodka was long ago replaced with plain water.

870556519406_0_ALBThanks to Luna, the box now contains two plastic glasses so Wanda won't have to chug the vodka straight from the bottle.  Luna also added a pair of surgical gloves in case the mother of the bride (or anyone else in the wedding party) becomes too hard to handle.  That way she doesn't leave any fingerprint evidence.  I think we've all been watching too much CSI.

390556519406_0_ALB At the end of the evening, we persuaded another customer to take a group picture.  He was probably secretly glad that that noisy table for 12 was finally getting out of there. 

Saturday we'll be moving the party to Auburn, where we'll all be wishing Braxton and Catie a long and happy marriage.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

All Dressed Up

Back in August when I celebrated my blog anniversary, I offered to do a blog makeover for a reader who was interested in a new look.  You may recall that I designed my own blog background and header, and I was just itching to do another one.

Martha at Mid-Atlantic Martha was the winner, and I contacted her about what kind of changes she wanted to make.  She told me that her favorite colors were pink and green and that she wanted a vintage look that featured roses, butterflies and crabs.  With that in mind I set out to find elements that I could incorporate into a new look for Martha's blog.

Here's the new header design that features everything Martha wanted, except for her four granddaughters.  We settled for this beach picture, but if she comes up with a picture of the four grand girls we can always change it.

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And here's Martha's new background.  You can visit her blog by clicking HERE to see the finished product.  We changed some of the colors for borders, titles and sidebar items to coordinate with her new look.

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Let me know what you think.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

It's Fall Y'all

Poster2009 Fall means college football, and for me and LBeau that means at least one trip to Fayetteville to watch the Razorbacks.  And there's nothing better on a cool, crisp game day than an early morning trip to the Fayetteville square for the Farmer's Market.

The Farmer's Market is celebrating its 35th anniversary this year.  We were living in Fayetteville when it opened in the spring of 1974.  Hunter was a baby, and I had bought a book with recipes for homemade baby food.  The Farmer's Market was a great source for fresh fruits and and vegetables.  I cooked everything from applesauce to carrots and green beans and froze it in ice cube trays.  When it was time for a feeding, I just popped a cube or two into the electric baby food dish for warming (those were pre-microwave days).

If it's not too early in the fall, I always like to find an unusual pumpkin or two to bring home.  In fact, it was at the Farmer's Market a few years ago that I first spotted the green Jarrahdale pumpkins.  I thought they were so pretty that I brought one home for each of my friends.

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On a recent Farmer's Market Saturday, the square was closed to all but foot traffic.  Plenty of friendly folks, most decked out in Razorback red and carrying steaming cups of coffee or hot chocolate, were milling around in search of produce…

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flowers…

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and handmade Ozark crafts.

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Volunteers from the Humane Society walked a variety of dogs that were looking for new homes, and musicians provided amateur entertainment.

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Fall%20color Now be sure to visit Rhoda at Southern Hospitality for more autumn inspiration.  Here in Alabama fall is definitely in the air.  Time to get out the pumpkins, turkeys, witches and ghosts for the upcoming holidays.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

You Can Go Home Again

1e6a_1A few weeks ago I traveled to Camden, Arkansas, for my 45th high school reunion.  Forty three of us made the trip for what we agreed was the best reunion we've ever had.

Beginning with the 10-year reunion, we've been gathering every five years since we graduated from Camden High School in 1964.  This year at least two of our classmates, Bill and Jim, returned for the first time, and it was Martha Sue's first reunion since the 10th.

On Friday night, Elaine's daughter and son-in-law hosted us at their house on Mustin Lake, a small lake near Camden where a number of local residents have weekend homes.  Without the GPS, I'm not sure Susan and I would have found our way there even though as teenagers we spent many days at Mustin Lake swimming and just hanging out with friends.  Back in the day, we didn't take senior trips to Disney World or Caribbean islands, but Mustin Lake was the scene of our senior outing.

45th Reunion 016Barbara, Charlene, Ellen and Richard at Mustin Lake

Saturday several of us met for lunch at the location of the Duck Inn, another of our teenage hang outs.  Now a Mexican restaurant, it just isn't the same.  Once we started driving, we could leave school at noon, and Duck Inn was one of our favorite places to eat lunch.  There was nothing better than Duck Inn homemade French fries dipped in their special homemade salad dressing.

After lunch Susan and I took a short driving tour of Camden.  Most of the traffic lights, where we used to do Chinese fire drills, are gone from downtown.  Watt's Department Store closed years ago, and Belk-Jones is now an antique mall.

We took a quick drive through the old high school campus.  The main building is long gone, with the steps leading up from the street the only thing remaining.  Coleman Stadium is still standing and looks pretty good, but the old gym where we held sock hops after every home football game is pretty run down.

45th Reunion 020Coleman Stadium, home of the Camden Panthers

We tried to find the homes where some of our friends had lived.  Virginia's house on Clifton Street is for sale, and the Helen Street Grocery is now a residence.  Incidentally, my grandfather named Helen Street for my mother's oldest sister when he helped develop that part of town.

camden 002 Virginia lived here at 662 Clifton Street

Saturday night's banquet was at another familiar spot.  Located on the Ouachita River, River Woods was once the Supervisors' Club, owned by International Paper Company and operated as a benefit for mill employees.

45th Reunion 023Virginia, Martha Sue, Ann, Penny and I at River Woods

The Supervisors' Club played an indirect role in one of our biggest "crimes," a story that gets told at every reunion.  When we were seniors, International Paper Company sponsored a day long outing to the Supervisors' Club for our class.  I suggested that it might be fun if all of us brought alarm clocks that day to put in our lockers and set them all to go off at the same time.  Plans were made, and we pulled it off, but Freddie Ann got blamed instead of me, and she won't let me forget it.

So now we are looking forward to our 50th reunion in just five short years.   We all seem to get better with age, and we long ago stopped trying to impress each other.  As I overheard one classmate say about another classmate, "She's so much fun; I wish I had hung out with her more."

Sometimes you just wish you could go back and do it all over again, this time with the wisdom of age.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Who Thinks Up These Questions?

nascar_officedepot As a member of  e-Rewards, I am sometimes asked to participate in online surveys.  For my time and effort, I earn e-Rewards dollars that I can convert into things like airline points.  A recent survey dealt with customer loyalty to office supply stores—Office Max, Staples and Office Depot.

When I rated the three stores, I was most loyal to Office Max, which I gave a 6.  Staples came in second with Office Depot earning a loyalty rating of 1 on a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the highest.

The second part of the survey noted that I had given Office Depot a 1 and then presented a series of scenarios and asked how they might change my loyalty rating of Office Depot.  These scenarios all had a common theme—NASCAR driver Tony Stewart.  It seems that Tony Stewart and Office Depot have a relationship.

So how would my loyalty to Office Depot change if, for example, I had a chance to win a trip around the track with Tony Stewart or dinner with Tony Stewart or Tony Stewart merchandise.  Not one iota.  Although I'm not a NASCAR fan, the survey never once asked my why I have no loyalty to Office Depot.

The answer is simple.  I can get to Office Max in about five minutes from my home office.  It takes about 15 minutes to drive to Staples.  The closest Office Depot is about 30 minutes away.

So my answer, if they had asked the right question, is simple.  Build a store closer to me, and I'd give Office Depot a shot at my business.  After all, copier paper is copier paper, whether it comes from Office Max, Staples, Office Depot or even Wal-Mart.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

In Case of an Emergency

MOB 024 Last night I hosted some special girlfriends for dinner.  This group of women has been getting together more or less monthly for the last five or six years.  Sometimes we do potluck in someone's home, and on other occasions we'll have dinner at a restaurant followed by a movie, especially if there's a good chick flick out.

MOB 006 A few years ago when our children started getting married, we began throwing Mother of the Bride (or Groom) showers.  Gifts range from lotion and foot scrub to aspirin and drink mixes—anything to help ease the tension of planning a wedding.  Last night was Glenda's turn to be honored, since her daughter Anna is getting married in a couple of weeks.

MOB 021 MOB 022 When Connie's daughter Bromleigh married in June of 2006, Luna presented her with an emergency box.  It contained such things as safety pins, a sewing kit, Tums, Tylenol and hairspray.  Over the years, it's been passed down to other MOB's and MOG's with each of us adding to the box.  Each MOB's or MOG's name and the date of her son's or daughter's wedding is written inside the lid.

The two bottles of vodka, probably left over from Luna's days as a flight attendant, were original to the box.  They are still there, never opened.  However, they did go missing for a while.

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When Karen presented the box to Becky in March of 2007, the bottles of vodka were nowhere to be found, and we accused Karen of consuming them, mindful that she had every right to do so.  Karen, however, told a different story, insisting that she removed them from the box and hid them so that her mother wouldn't see them.  Later on when Karen moved and was cleaning out a chest, she found the vodka and returned it to the emergency box.  Maybe Glenda will find a use for it this year.

MOB 011Several items were added to the box this year.  Janice furnished white chalk.  She heard somewhere that it can be used to cover up minor stains on the wedding dress.

MOB 015I had a real problem with static cling when Brent married in 2005, so I bought Static Guard for the emergency box, and I also threw in a pair of scissors.  Side note:  If you don't have Static Guard available, dryer sheets rubbed over your legs make a great substitute.

With swine flu in the news, Sherri included hand sanitizer.  A huge Alabama fan, she also graciously contributed some Auburn orange Tic Tacs for Glenda to enjoy.

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These special special bridal beads that Luna brought last night can be worn by the MOB or MOG so that everyone knows just how important she is.

MOB 009 And perhaps the best addition of all was this wine cork.  Luna explained that when the father of the bride starts asking too many questions about how much the wedding is costing, you just quietly stuff it into his mouth.

Sadly, one original item is missing from the emergency box, but nobody will confess to taking the leopard skin undies.

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Monday, September 7, 2009

Camden on the Ouachita


Camden on the Ouachita
Best team in Arkansas
C-A-M-D-E-N
That's the way you spell it.
Here's the way you yell it.
Camden!! Camden!! Camden!!

Camden High SchoolCamden High School, Camden, Arkansas

I'm heading for Camden on the Ouachita (pronounced Wash-ah-taw) tomorrow for my 45th high school reunion.  I graduated from Camden High School in 1964 with about 100 other eager young people.

Paper MillInternational Paper Company, Camden, Arkansas

Back in the day we had two school districts in a relatively small town of about 14,000.  The other high school was Fairview High School, and we were bitter rivals.  Fairview was in the area of town dominated by an International Paper Company mill, and although the whole town often had an unpleasant odor about it, Fairview smelled worse than the rest of Camden.

Sadly there is no more paper mill and there is no more Camden High School.  A number of years ago, the Camden School District was absorbed by the Fairview School District, and the high school is now called Camden Fairview High School.

But there are still proud graduates of CHS, and I'm looking forward to seeing a lot of them Friday night.  After the reunion, I'm sure I'll have more to say and pictures to share.